I remember the day we drove over to that small town south of Spokane in February of 2008.The owner had advertised her and we’d been selected at her new forever home. It was cold and bright in the Palouse. We left Allie in the car and walked up the stars into the small rural health clinic and the receptionist brought Nimmie out. She promptly hid under a desk in the back of the room. After some conversation and verbal enticement, Nimmie came to us and we walked her out to the car.
That was the beginning of an all too brief love affair with one of the sweetest dogs on the planet. Nimmie was eager to please and obsessed with a tossed ball. And prairie dogs. Think the movie Up. Most nights she’d come over to my side of the bed, making little moaning sounds as I rubbed behind her ears. She enjoyed the walks down Harry Street on Discovery Bay and the trails at Fort Worden. Smaller than Allie, she nonetheless gave no ground when it came to play. She was a Nova Scotia Duck Tolling Retriver: bright-eyed, intelligent, vocal and active.
She left us in the evening of a sunny day on Cape Cod. We had begun on our walkabout knowing she had stage V lymphoma, but also knowing she was just as happy with us in the motor home as she was at home in the cul-de-sac.
Nimmie taught me what love can be. She taught me that dogs are affectionate partners in life, with us for fewer years than we’d like. I now hold Allie, Kinnon and Sherry much closer. I’m now able to let go of some of the things that I used to think were important. Dogs live in the moment and why shouldn’t I try? We’re here in this lifetime for a short time only. Nimmie’s transition continues to let me know how short that time really is and how important each kindness becomes.
Nimmie was full of grace: elegant, beautiful, with smoothness of movement; dignified, polite, and decent in behavior; with a capacity to tolerate, accommodate, or forgive people. I can only imperfectly aspire to what she so easily embodied each and every day.
So, dear girl, chase that ball and be pain-free where you are now. I look forward to having you by my side in God’s own time. Go free!
